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In India , dowry or dowry is not valuables offerings bridegroom to the bride . But , it's more like a tribute than the bride's parents to the groom's family . In the discussion of the dowry , the bride usually not involved . The bridegroom occasionally involved .
In keeping with tradition , dowry discussed only parents of the bridegroom and the bride . In India , dowries were not always have to be paid in cash . Embodiments are generally dowry in cash and valuables that should be done gradually . However , dowry payments in stages ( installments ) then that's what lead to many problems .
Over time , the groom's family may increase the value of the dowry that they agree at the start of the wedding . Until the dowry paid off , the family of the bridegroom to the bride tends to treat arbitrary . Start satire , mockery , to various forms of physical abuse . In fact , the mental and physical torture are not infrequently lead to death .
Every year thousands of Indian women have died because of the fire . Husband burned her husband or family who have not paid the dowry because upset . For example , Gupta Pravartika experienced last year . 25 -year-old woman died because of the act of the husband . He was burned in the bed when you're sleeping with her daughter who was aged 13 months .
Tuesday ( 3/9 ) , Bureau of Indian National Criminal records reported , each hour , one woman died due to dowry -related crimes . " Last year 8,233 women died of India dowry dispute , " said the agency . Unfortunately , the high mortality rate is inversely proportional to prove the crime of dowry which is only 32 percent .
Actually , Indian law already prohibits the giving and taking dowry in marriage . However , in 1961 standardized the law can not be applied to the fitting . In practice , the Indian community is still very permissive towards giving and receiving dowry . Not infrequently , the cynical view even to those who tried to break one of the traditions and uphold the law .
Look at the case of Nisha Sharma in May 2003. When it is , the beautiful girl into the media spotlight because of his courage off the wedding . In front of about 200 guests , he suddenly refused to marry Munish Dalal . Garanya , Dalal family suddenly raise the value of the dowry that has been previously agreed . Because it had been a commotion , Sharma then went to the police .
The police had to act quickly . They immediately caught Dalal along with his mother , Vidya , and her aunt , Savitri . In addition , the police interrogated several times Navneet Rai . Friends and Dalal Sharma was touted to know about the dowry bicker . However , it is not as fast as their reaction to the report Sharma , Indian police were too slow to process the case in court .
Sharma and Dalal was beginning to recover from the bad memories . Rai Sharma later married , while Dalal marry another girl . It is said that the couple's marriage lasted two simple manner, without involving dowry . However , the legal process is still running . Sharma , Dalal and Rai still have to undergo interrogation at the police station .
Unfortunately , the law enforcement in India is not serious about dealing with cases of dowry Sharma . Last year the court in the city of Noida , Gautam Buddh Nagar District , Uttar Pradesh State , sentenced free to Dalal , Vidya , and Savitri . The Court considers that there is not enough evidence that could ensnare the top three allegations Sharma .
" All of this was planned in advance . Nisha 's father , DD Sharma , put his daughter's wedding announcement with Navneet Rai on February 14, 2003 , " Vidya said as quoted by the Daily Mail . According to him , his family alleges Sharma deliberately abrupt change agreement dowry just to not be married to Dalal . Therefore , Sharma has a special relationship with Rai .
Dalal and spit his camp so the story behind the emergence of allegations Sharma when it , then changed alignments Indian public . Within hours , all the empathy that once flowed on Sharma turned into scorn . Moreover , family Dalal said Sharma had admitted that rotten intentions in front of the judges . However , Sharma denied the claim.
Dalal and family over allegations of public criticism of post - acquittal had three people who want to be part of the family , Sharma defensively . In fact , he said it would appeal . He could not accept the verdict given by the judge to free Dalal , Vidya , and Savitri . Sharma tried to maintain its reputation as a groundbreaking female dowry .
" Later , dowry has become a scourge in India . Expensive value is higher and , in accordance with the increase in the country's economy , " said Ranjana Kumari , women's rights activists . According to him , the Indian community became increasingly greedy . They will try to vent their thirst for luxury goods through dowry . As a result , marriage was no longer love affairs , but the affairs of dowry .
" Marriage is becoming increasingly commercial , not unlike the business . Increasingly wealthy groom's family so that the higher the value of the requested dowry , " said Kumari . Suman Nalwa , a police official in the city of New Delhi , explains that the commercialization of marriage has been endemic to the whole society . Because, now not only the rich who want a lavish dowry . ( AP / Time of India / Daily Mail / Huffington Post/IBN/hep/c14/dos )
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